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What to do with sperm? This is an absolutely legitimate question that can only be resolved if you communicate effectively with your partner. There are many possibilities for what to do with the best “Happy Ending” in the world.
Whether in the mouth, face, back or chest. Do you swallow, or would you rather spit? And if we spit, where?
There are many more ways where you can make your sperm disappear undercover.
In this article you get all the answers to your questions, around the topic “what to do with sperm”, how a handkerchief can be the last resort in bed, and why it doesn’t matter what happens to the sperm, but rather what should’nt happen with the sperm.
Forget the saying “speech is silver, silence is golden”
No quote is more out of place than the phrase “speech is silver and silence is golden”,especially when it comes to the question of what should happen to the sperm after sex.
It is always better to know beforehand what should happen with the sperm before it has gone to far and you don’t know what to do with it.
You should definitely talk to your partner, at best in advance, before it’s too late and things have happened that your partner may not agree with.
And this can usually only be determined by good communication.
Especially when she’s busy on your man-piece giving oral sex right now. Believe me when I say, nothing is worse than just being surprised by a large load of sperm when you’re still lost in the momen, or thinking of something else.
What to do with sperm that you didn’t expect? Without registering, this sperm is just at the door and wants to go home to you. It feels the same way and it has to stop!
Communication is everything!
But there is, of course, a solution to this problem that is very clear. Think of a sign together in advance, it can also be a code word, whichever you prefer.
As soon as this word, or your agreed signal sounds, you can prepare for the orgasm and ejaculation.
Maybe your partner is also in the mood to be “injected” by you, but sometimes a simple “spray on the breasts” or “I want you to squirt on my butt” is enough.
That’s usually enough as a simple sentence before it comes. But this also requires communication and, above all, trust.
There’s always a solution
If you don’t like sperm and the last thing you can imagine is being injected by your partner, then this is more than just a simple problem.
Remember, nothing must destroy your sexual development, plus you don’t want to upset your man.
So if you are the type of person who doesn’t want to have anything to do with sperm after orgasm, you can tell your partner and the he can be prepared. He can bring a handkerchief, a other cloth, into use, or he could just simply squirt into a condom, which saves a whole load of mess!
Because it’s always best to think about it nicely, after all unprotected sex is not safe. Precaution is always better than aftercare, and sex is best when practiced safely! Whether blowjob, vaginal or anal.
During sex, safety first must always be applied!
Spit or swallow?
We are all aware of this situation – He’s about to come. You already feel that in a few minutes it is time, and your partner wants to come into your mouth. But what if you don’t want the sperm in your mouth?
There is no question that you should both like it equally. From this point of view, you should never do anything to please a man just for the sake of it, and certainly not your husband or long-term partner.
Whether in bed, or in normal everyday life. He should definitely give you a sign and communicate with the woman beforehand. And if that doesn’t happen, you should definitely strike up a conversation with him.
If he gives you a sign, you have enough time to decide what to do with the sperm. Spit or swallow?, it’s up to you to decide, after all you are the person in charge at this point. And if you don’t want to have anything to do with the sperm itself, you can bring him to a climax with your hand before he comes.
If he gives you a sign all the better, because then you have enough time to think about what should happen to the sperm. So if you don’t feel like it, just take his penis out of your mouth and make it happy.
In the end, it doesn’t make any difference to him and, by and large, it simply won’t matter. More important is basically the orgasm during sex itself, and less how it came to it.
However, if you do want to swallow, then check out our guide about swallowing sperm.
Other options instead of swallowing sperm
There is no question that there is nothing more beautiful for a man than when his partner blows him, and then swallows his sperm. This is always seen as the crowning glory, or the perfect finale.
But is it really about swallowing the sperm?
Or much more about sharing this brief moment of intimacy in which the sperm is collected in the mouth of the partner?
Don’t you want to let this intimate moment take you, but at the same time you’re less interested in swallowing his sperm? But what else do you do with the sperm?
Perhaps you should put a handkerchief, towel, or just a normal cloth aside ready to take the load afterwards.
In it you can then spit his sperm inconspicuously pure. Of course, you also have the option to dispose of it directly in the bathroom in the sink, or the toilet. Obviously saves garbage, or an additional spin of the washing machine, but at the same time it is not the most sexy solution.
Of course it doesn’t have to be, but it’s more recommended to keep the necessary utensils right next to the bed.
What to do with sperm you didn’t expect?
If anyone ever made a stupid comment, because you don’t want to swallow the sperm, you should look very quickly into the distance. Because stupid comments are as out of place here as a condom in a long-term relationship.
And let’s face it, who has a handkerchief or towel for these very cases, which just to happens to be lying next to the bed any time of the day and night?
Likewise, it’s not okay if he just squirts it on your face, on your belly, or on your breasts without you having discussed it with each other beforehand.
Of course, if this is not possible, then it is an absolute no go! Sex is supposed to be fun.
Fingers away from unnatural role models
We all know a video in which the woman swallows tons of her parnters sper. Whether its in porn, or the numerous erotic movies that you have access to around the clock.
Please don’t be blinded or even intimidated by such a video. This is all staged and in no way corresponds to reality. Set your own boundaries with your partner around the topic “what to do with sperm”.
That way you both agree with it and can continue to be happy thereafter. Whether cloth, mouth, chest or abdomen, whichever you choose, the answer to this question is entirely up to you.
After all, that’s what sex is all about.