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Face-sitting, ever heard of it, and if so, have you tried it? If you answered both questions with a clear no, then this article is just right for you!
After all, you never stop learning, do you?
Here in this article we will provide you with all the necessary information, along with all the right tips about the different face-sitting variants!
So what exactly is face-sitting?
Face-sitting is, to put it briefly, a variant of oral intercourse in which the woman usually sits on the face of her partner. This allows the parther to lick the vagina and vulva of the woman ‘on top’.
The term ‘face-sitting’ is pretty much self-explanatory. It’s not only totally intimate and exciting, but also gives the woman the opportunity to keep control during oral intercourse.
In this oral sex position she can specify the tone, as well as determining the rhythm and the pressure. Besides, you should know that most women usually do not come to vaginal orgasm, if in fact at all.
There are several reasons why this article is beyond the scope. However, the Cunnilingus is the easiest way to bring the woman of your choice to orgasm.
What’s important when it comes to face-sitting?
Before we go into more detail about all the exact information about the topic, such as the exact exposure, the different variants and the intensity, we should first create a primer. That is trust.
Trust plays an indispensable, and by no means underestimated, role in face-sitting.
Trust is something you and your partner should not take lightly. Because good sexual intercourse, whether oral sex, vaginal or anal, starts with good communication and ends (at best) with a naturally indispensable orgasm.
This will then take on a completely new form. There are many different variants, all of which could not be more different, and we will explore them in more detail later in this article.
What to pay attention to when face-sitting
You should be careful not to completely crush the face of the man with your body weight, and to give him air to breathe, even in this pleasure position. So it is not only effort for the person below, but he can also feel the full pleasure, and then pamper you completely.
Personally, we believe that communication is very important.
Because once both of you are aroused, things can happen quickly that were not intended at all.
So set a framework, rules you both want to follow. That way you can better get involved in everything else and feel the desire to the fullest, and ultimately enjoy it.
You can simply ask your partner whatshe thinks about the idea of trying face-sitting and if so, what is important to her. Maybe she’s not the type of woman who likes to keep control, but even then face-sitting isn’t out of the question for you, thanks to the numerous variants and possibilities.
The different variants
Let’s start with the different variants around this topic. There are a number of factors involved in this.
We have already clarified the question about what it is, so depending on your view, you may need a completely different tip.
For example, the different sex position plays a big role, because the position determines the intensity. Just like the weight of the man, or the woman.
For one or the other it may be a little more exciting, while the other prefers an easy-to-execute position. But I can calm you down. There will be something for everyone!
Because when it comes to face-sitting, there’s a lot more to it than you might think.
#1. For the gentle among us
The basic principle is simple and leaves virtually no room for error. Because in the gentle version, the woman sits with her vagina on the face of the man.
The woman’s knees are seen on the right and left side of the man’s head. After that, only one step is missing to complete the position.
The vagina just needs to find its right place – namely on the partner’s mouth. And you’re off!
In the gentle version, the woman simply falls off at the bedside, so that not the entire body weight, literally lies on the man’s face.
The hands can easily support them on the wall. Then she can control with light and above all controlled movements, and thus make it a little easier for the man at the beginning. He can close his eyes and enjoy the intense and intimate moment.
#2. The slightly harder version
In the slightly harder version, the woman sits on her partner’s face with her entire body weight. So that he can penetrate deep into you with his mouth and tongue, and lead you to orgasm with pressure.
This much stronger pressure, which is triggered by your entire weight on it, can stimulate your clitoris much more intensely.
But one thing is essential for this kind of face-sitting. A signal, or a movement with the hand, or the leg.
For one thing you must not forget and, above all, not underestimate. The person lying down under your face could have problems with air in this variant.
So before he finishes oral sex in a completely unromantic way, a signal word would be the salvation for your desire and mood. So the woman can easily crash, for a few seconds, to give the man the opportunity to get air. By the way, this variant is also suitable for anilingus (rimming).
Otherwise, this variant is quite intense and gives the lady full control while she sits on her partner’s face. This is very exciting, which means that there is a special satisfaction that neither of you will forget very quickly!
The harder options isn’t for everyone, but it’s worth trying out with your partner when you feel ready.
#3. Bound face-sitting
This version could also be called the little sister of the BDSM, because it is ‘bondage style’. The hands of the partner lying down are tied to the bed. Sounds exciting? Is it! And it also guarantees a breath of fresh air in long-standing relationships.
This has the most complete control, and this is why the bound variant has been made practical. Power games, and the associated submission, are for many couples a great change from normal sex.
If you both have enough of it, then this variant could bring a breath of fresh air to your relationship and thus stop the sex slump! But here too, nothing can be done without a signal word.
You should always remember this, especially when the sex gets harder and you don’t want to hurt each other. Enough is enough and this signal word should be taken extremely seriously.
Because that’s how it works best. Once you have established a fixed framework, you can move even more freely in it and satisfy yourself completely.
Because then you know at best exactly what your partner stands for and can give him exactly what he is looking for sexually!Oral sex can also be just the beginning, which ultimately leads to wild and exuberant sexual intercourse.
What does queening mean?
Never heard of it? No problem, queening refers to the English word Queen, which is therefore intended to describe the relationship between the two parties.
Queening is not a new invention, but simply the harder version of this sex position, which spreads special pleasure. The women kneels on the men’s face, in a harder version.
While she squeezes the thighs slightly, she retains complete control over what is happening. Queening also goes slightly in the BDSM direction, but does not have to be practiced naked.