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3 Easy ways to watch sex
Watching sex is a great fantasy of many people. Many people wonder what it’s like for other couples. And that’s because every person is different, and thus also is the sex.
We are now going to introduce you to the 3 best ways you can watch sex (and thus satisfy your personal curiosity).
These are the 3 ways…
- Watching porn
- Look at webcams
- Watching couples have live sex
#1: Watching porn – OK but boring
The first way is obvious: watch porn. Everyone either looks at it regularly or has looked at it before. This is mainly due to simplicity. Nowadays however, it is a lot easier to access pornographic material on the Internet.
No matter what you like or what you’re in to, online you’ll find what you’re looking for. But that makes the whole thing very boring. Why?
You have full control over what you get to see, so it gives you a horny kick for a while, but in the long term porn is simply unrealistic.
There is no element of tension. But isn’t that exactly what you’re looking for? In real life it’s all about the uncertainty, the release of thoughts and fantasies – THAT’S what makes for the enjoyment. But, with porn you often won’t experience that.
It’s a first good choice if you want to watch strangers having sex. No more and no less. This is also often where the problem lies.
For people who grew up with porn (which is quite a lot), they end up with too many misconceptions meaning that the actual sex can sometimes be disappointing.
Maybe your girlfriend does not move in bed at all (also known as the starfish position).
But don’t worry, there are two more ways to get your sexual kick and watch people having sex.
#2: Watch live sex webcams – high kick, low hurdles
The second way is often overlooked: watching couples have sex via webcam platforms (live).
At first glance, of course, this may appear very similar to porn. But you’re wrong. Although the content is readily available (via platforms such as e.g Cam4), there is quite a far-reaching difference here.
Live webcams, are ‘as the name suggests’ live and happening right here and now. Do you feel like trying it out?
There is no way to repeat a scene, or to use different camera angles, or to separate the footage (in the same way that porn does).
The final result is (therefore) not manipulated. Here you get the real deal, happening live as it unfolds.
Sure, it’s still something else to watch on the screen during sex. But not so far from reality.
As a rule, these webcam portals offer a lot of different cams at the same time. So you have a much wider choice, giving everyone the chance to find something they really get off on.
The only shortcoming here is for people who want to watch sex alone. After all, there are several people at once (sometimes a hundred, or even a thousand people) in each stream.
Watching sex (private shows)
There is the possibility of a private show of course. For this you can have the sex of your desires broadcast only for you.
However, remember this function will be subject to a charge, unlike most cams which are freely available. (But there are also portals that want to be paid for it)
Do you want people to be able to see you? Then, with the Cam2Cam feature, this is also a possibility that can become realized whilst online.
Live webcams are therefore a good variant for all those who are looking for a high stimulus, but don’t want to put too much effort into it.
#3: Watch live sex – high kick, high effort
The most difficult option is to watch a real couple. This kick is not to be outdone of course – but the effort is correspondingly high!
But nothing is impossible. That’s why I’m now showing you some tactics on how to do this.
OK, there are two types of watching sex:
- Watch in secret
- Watching with mutual consent
Watching secretly is very difficult to realize and can hardly be planned. Apart from that, it is not legally permissible. So if at all possible, I advise you not to use this variant.
Sometimes of course, there is a situation in which you don’t happen across by chance, where a couple at also curious. Especially in spring, when the hormones are spinning and the weather is slowly getting warm again.
So if you want to increase your chances a little bit, go through parks more. Especially at times where there is usually little going on, and you may be lucky!
Last year, on the way home from a club (it was already hell) I walked through a park and unexpectedly came across a couple who were having sex right next to the road in the bush.
So much for my personal anecdotes. But what if you want to watch sex?
There are different ways you can find willing people who want to explore, and who will more than likely give consent. Of course, communication is key if you want to continue this new sexual role. There is also the possibility of even making friends, or new relationships could even feel less prohibitive.
One option are internet dating platforms
These include, for example, Tinder or OK Cupid. There, couples are looking for a threesome from time to time, or people who want to watch. Since these couples love to be watched, they may offer full shows, or even let you join in and try a new sexual experience.
The platforms are not specialized for this. So your quest could drag on forever, especially since no one can guarantee you a match even if you hit!
But if you’re using internet dating anyway, why not take a look? After all, nothing comes from standing still, so give it a try.
The next option is your social circle
Maybe your friends and acquaintances would love to give this a go. Of course, for many this idea is a little repulsive as anonymity is still always preferred.
But if that’s not the case and you look at such things rather openly and loosely – why not test it out.
Even if you couldn’t imagine someone you know agreeing – what do you have to lose? Just ask in a moment with a relaxed atmosphere (possibly with the influence of alcohol).
The chances are not bad that something interesting will come out of it.
Another option is to use online forums
These are often set up with sexual orientation or sex ads. Voyeurs are regularly sought there. However, there are often commercial interests behind them, rather than building relationships.
Another option is to make contacts via swingers or sauna clubs. There it should be very easy to watch people having sex, and also to make contacts (for later).
The last option is to build relationships on webcam sites. However, there is no guarantee of success.
If you become a real fan of a couple and regularly chat with them (during their sexual shows), and donate tokens, you can ask at some point (without obligation) if they would like to do so. They may be open to such a request, or they may even let you watch (whilst out of sight of viewers) while they are broadcasting their shows!
What to consider when watching sex
No matter which way it comes. Always remember that the people are only human beings, just like you.
There may be situations where one or more people do not feel so comfortable. It is important to understand this, then it is guaranteed to be a successful experience.
But don’t put pressure on, or challenge others (if they don’t agree).
And now have fun watching!
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