Is your sex live boring? Probably not if you’re a CAM4 user. Could it be better? Couldn’t it always? There’s no better time than now to pick up some new tricks and accessories for your torture chamber or love shack. Here’s the hottest sex tips that the CAM4 HQ is thinking about all day, just in time for Valentine’s Day.
Go accessory shopping
Yes, good sex will be good sex with or without accessories. But imagine the best sex you’ve ever had, and how much fun you’d have if there was hot wax, massage oil, and handcuffs? Buy things you’ve never used before – for example hot wax or tingling lube. Putting the trust in someone to pour how wax on your body coupled with the new sensations will heighten your sense of touch… hello orgasms! Not into wax play? Buy neckties and hold your partner captive for a really dirty blow job or pussy licking.
Massage!!
Especially for women, a pre-sex massage is definitely always welcome. And the more you tease us by rubbing strategically, the better. Buy a massage oil, which is pretty standard to find. Anything from Almond Oil to fancy massage kits from your local sexy shop. Light the candles and give her a massage. This shit is not cheesy, it will make her cum faster, stronger, and put her in the mood to be diiiirty. I can’t be alone in this 😉 Take turns teasing each other, seeing who’s the first one to break down and start the real foreplay.
Do something new
Needless to say, doing something new is sexy, especially in long term relationships. Even the freakiest of freaks have some things on their sexual bucket list that they haven’t shared. It could be as simple as trying anal or fucking in an alley after dinner and drinks; but take Valentine’s Day as an opportunity to form trust with your partner and explore their body’s uncharted territory.
Get dressed up
Another one for the ladies – before the tension-building massage, we all know that dressing up can change your life. Buy some new lingerie, maybe a new perfume. Get a waxing, do your hair, make up, wear the sexiest outfit you have, and do whatever it is that makes you feel your best. He’ll want to unwrap you right away even without knowing what’s underneath.
Put on music
Assuming you’ve known each other for more than a couple days, you probably know what music each other like. Most people don’t normally listen to music during sex, but when you play the right stuff it’s mind-blowing. Don’t assume you need to think Tom Jones-type music is sexy, Personally, Nick Cave is my sex music. Just flip through some music with your lover and see what makes you feel sexy.
Try out this Valentine’s Day playlist made by Boyxxv
Get physical
Blah blah blah, the music is on, the babe is dressed up, the candles are lit. Now I want you to fuck me like I’m a one night stand and you’ll never see me again. Try all the crazy positions you think are just for porn. A lot of couples get stuck in the missionary rut, let’s stop that. Consider this your friendly reminder to make V-Day extra physical. Grab, scratch, bite, throw each other around. Just let it all happen, if you feel like her legs should be wrapped around your neck, do it. You might be surprised at your lover’s boundaries 😉