Communication is absolute KEY
This is VERY important, I can’t stress this enough. Talk to your partner about your desires, feelings and your doubts and be completely honest with each other. It I very important to set personal boundaries, have a safe word when one of you do not like the situation. If one starts to get jealous it’s the others job to be able to read the signs the other is giving and stop doing what is making said person jealous. Remember the most important thing is your partner, you are in this together, if you are not then swinging again is not for you.
Always make sure you are being respectful to the other couples, do not be pushy or grabby unless you have been given some type of permission to do so. Part of being respectful of others is being clean, smelling good and well groomed. Also communicate what you are willing and not willing todo ad make sure they do the same so there is no misunderstanding.
Tip for the guys
– Guys, remember the life style is all about the women, if she doesn’t want to do it then it won’t happen PERIOD! In almost all cases it is the women who make the decision on who sleeps with whom and this is important in keeping everything copacetic, especially in the beginning.
The Lifestyle can be fun and eye opening, if done with consideration, and respect for everyone’s feelings, wishes and well being. What are YOUR thoughts about the subject?? Bad, good? it doesn’t matter just leave a comment below and be part of the discussion.
Till next time, XoXo