And NO im not talking about from a tree.. I am talking about a little known adventure called SWINGING!!! Swinging, which was pretty much invented back in the 1960’s during the “Free Love” era, is the act of a loving couple engaging in sexual activity with another couple or another individual to bring a little more excitement or spice into a relationship or marriage.. ..The individuals who are into this act like to call it “The Lifestyle” or “The Alternative life style” …
Though defiantly not for everyone, it can be a way of not only spicing up a sex stale relationship, it can also strengthen your love for one another and create a healthy and long lasting marriage, believe it or not.
You may be thinking that is the Men that are begging their wives/girlfriends to open up their marriage/Relationship (and your probably right), but surprisingly many women are the ones who initiate the conversation.
Many Women are a little curious about sex between two women and the life style allows them explore and discover this part of their sexual desires without being looked down upon.
If you and your partner are thinking of trying out the “Life Style” here are some tips to help you get started:
Happy and healthy relationship
Although swinging enhances or improves the sex lives of many couples, it’s not for everybody. If you want to try it but have insecurities or you are not able to communicate well with your partner, swinging can ruin your relationship instead of improving it. Swinging enhances only relationships that are strong and happy if you don’t feel your relationship is there then Just MOVE on buckaroo!!
Mutual consent
No one should be pressured or forced into swinging, if both parties are not genially into the idea then it wont work and could also ruin your relationship. What turns me on is that my partner is very much into it and I enjoy them enjoying others, because I love my partner I would never want them to do something they don’t like.
Safety Comes First
Always always ALWAYS use protection and I don’t mean a taser (although that could come in handy J )most swing parties you go to will usually have a plethora of condoms you can choose from, USE THEM, or bring your own. Saftey is very important, you don’t want you are your loved one to get some nastly little bug do ya??.
Do your research
There are a TON of resources on the internet, articles, Blogs, there are even studies and surveys conducted that you can read through to see if the lifestyle is for you. Not to mention the swinging sites that help you get in contact with like minded people that you can diddle to your heart’s desire ..
To be continued…