In a world of high stress, to-do-lists, and constantly running out of time, tantra is the perfect antidote to the routine that develops in every romantic relationship.
Remember to have fun and don’t take yourself too seriously.
Despite all the talk of too-good-for-words orgasm, the big “O” is not the goal of Tantra. Instead, it’s just being in the moment and riding a wave of sensation and arousal (yours and your partner’s)
Tips
1. Be Open
Don’t dismiss anything, just set some practices aside until you’re ready to experiment with them later on. And make sure to remain playful and curious – if a practice feels good to both of you, you’re on your way!
2. Take A Relaxing Bath
Run a soothing bubble bath for your beloved. Light candles all over the bathroom, add soft music, spread rose petals on the floor, and pour a glass of their favorite wine.
3. Engage In A Tantric Kiss
Breathe together and imagine that you’re sharing each other’s breath. Then join your lips in a soft, gentle kiss.
4. Give a Tantric Massage
Have him (or her) lay face down, as you awaken their body to various sensations.. This massage is not about orgasm, so do not try to make them come – simply enjoy giving them pleasure.
If you do decide to make love, do not rush it. Allow the penetration to happen naturally, without any effort.