Sexting – erotic fun with chat!

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• “If you were here now, what would you do with me?”
• “I’m just so hot on you… What do you have on?”
• “Call me, I want to hear you moan live!”

Well, did one of these sentences appeal to you? If so, sexting seems to be the right topic for you – because almost 30% of all men and women can be made a little hot by texts.

Sexting (erotic fun with chat) is a wonderful way to bring a breath of fresh air to your love life, to get erotic thoughts about the distance or simply to try dirty talk with a stranger; without any risk!

Sexting is a word creation from sex and texting – logically, it refers to sending erotic messages and photos by media, for example via smartphone or PC.

What in many households often encounters raised eyebrows from people, or even disgusted glances is for others THE kick for his sexual fantasies.

Templates for chats, and tips about the right pictures and suggestions for a great start – all of this help can be found right here!

But what is sexting anyway?

In essence, sexting is sending messages with erotic contents, usually by phone (or other media) – as I have already briefly mentioned above.

Sexting describes the sending of sparkling texts to make the recipient hot and horny.

Unfortunately, the digital use of these unambiguous text messages has not gained a good reputation over time – and this is largely wrong.

Sexting doesn’t always have to be vulgar and embarrassing, but can often give someone else a hot head and also increase their desires.

Digital sexts can even offer you some benefits, regardless of whether you’re single or in a relationship!

Within a relationship, you can bring a breath of fresh air to the relationship by sexting and elegantly get your partner out of the reserve.

Or you might just need some variety and try it with some complete stranger?

Such a one-night digital stand can be more exciting than some lonely nights.  

Sexting – erotic fun with chat – has other advantages:

You can think about your text beforehand (compared to spontaneous “Dirty Talk”) and have more time to prepare.

It can serve as a “support wheel” to practice “dirty stuff”. The time for formulating your text puts less pressure on you and you have the opportunity to write and express what you want to “say” without actually having to pronounce it out loud.

When is the best time for sexting?

First and foremost, this rule applies: Everything that has to do with erotic texts or sexually explicit pictures etc., ONLY send to secure recipients.

In other words, your partner. You know logically the preferences of you other half, know when it can become inappropriate, and at best you are both open to such a thing.

Even a completely unknown person can become a good chat buddy, but please only search/write them with mutual trust.

But more on that below.

As already mentioned, there are also many completely inappropriate moments for an erotic message.

You know your partner has a men’s evening today? Then best leave out the “I’m just so horny on you” message. In the worst case, his colleagues might be reading along or he gets an erection in front of the others.

He has an important meeting today? Also a very bad time. Always consider whether it would be beneficial for your partner to be hyped or under pressure by you, just at that moment.

And when is it not possible?

It should be clear to each of us that we don’t always get (or want) to have sex all the time.

Although men are generally credited with being more ready when it comes to sexual activity, you shouldn’t immediately get to it at the drop of a hat.

Sometimes the very simple sentence is enough: I just have a lot of desire for you.

“I’m just so infinitely horny” is often as inappropriate as the first message as “I want to feel your hard cock in me right now!”

In most cases, it should first be felt whether the other person is in the mood at all. If he gets on top of it, then of course it can go more concretely to the matter and there are no limits to the imagination.

Even if the thought of dirty talk about sex with someone who is a wild stranger can be particularly exhilarating and sparkling, you should be careful with the choice of your chat buddy!

(Attention: when it comes to sharing images. A few words under a nickname are completely different than personal nude pictures of our most intimate areas. Here I would recommend everyone to hold back in case of unknowns.)

As mentioned earlier, it is not particularly advisable to simply look for and write to any person. Strange people who are only looking for sexts even though you have no interest in it, seem more repulsive to both men and women.

So be sure that your partner also wants to do it before you start.

The “first time”

“I don’t know how to start…” I hear you ask.

Sexting – erotic fun with chat – is not rocket science!

As with pretty much every new thing, you need a bit of sensitivity and of course the right partner – but you’ll see, getting started isn’t that hard!

In a long partnership you can, for example allude to a shared sexual experience for the beginning. “You remember when we were in this insanely good hotel… ” or “I thought about our last beach visit, about you, me and the sea – we should repeat this soon “.  

In the best case, your partner will not only fall into an erotic mood, but also into pleasant memories. An ideal start!

If you don’t dare to say certain things at first, then that’s not a problem at all!

For the beginning, you can also omit them and set three points instead:

“I just imagine how we both lie in our bed together…“

One will understand the suggestion!

You quickly realize whether your partner wants to get on it or not. If it doesn’t work out the first time, don’t throw the shotgun straight to the grain!

Maybe he just couldn’t get the timing? Did you have wild, uninhibited sex the night before and he’s not back in the mood yet?

Speak to him if you’re not sure what he thinks of it!

And how it works – the best templates for sexting!

You want to send the first hot text message,  but aren’t sure what to write? Or you’re in the middle of hot chat and your creativity is wavering?

Don’t worry, we’ve put together a small collection of atmospheric messages and provided them for you!

Of course, you can adapt them to your current situation or just be inspired by them, we definitely wish you a lot of fun browsing  😉

The prelude through sexting

“Creating images and awakening expectations” is the keyword!

As explained briefly above, softer messages are needed for the beginning. If you slowly rise, it can come from sexting to WhatsApp sex.  

Start slowly, raise yourself carefully and always keep an eye on your partner’s reactions. Then nothing stands in your way and your chat! 

Here are some examples for sexting (erotic fun with chat) that you can use to get started:

• You never guess what I’m thinking about!
• I’m really cold, I wish you’d come here and warm me/us up!
• Guess if I’m wearing underwear today!
• Do you like me better with this dress, or without?
• The pillows smell like you, I wish we were in between tonight.
• What are you doing? I had to get straight to … you!
• I cooked for us, I think you’re on the menu as dessert!
• Hey I’m in a hot mood right now. I just took a bath and am quite restless, How are you?
• I’m sooo bored and I don’t know what to do with myself. Any ideas?
• I would kind of like it to be in the mood in front of all the people at work…
• Can’t you do an hour’s early evening today?
• I somehow miss the feeling of your skin under my fingertips…
• Sometimes I can’t believe how much I lose control when I think of you.
• Say, are you alone?
• Would you like to see me now?
• I’ve been thinking about you all day long… What if we put these ideas into practice? But you have to find out for yourself which ones they are 😉
• I can’t stop thinking about dirty things… do you know that?
• What is the most strange thing that turns you on?
• I am so sad that I cannot be in your bed now. But in xy days/hours…
• I’m sitting here right now and I can’t concentrate because I know I’m seeing you. You make me mad!
• Imagine we would be invisible at the moment – what we could do…
• What is your favourite part of my body?
• I can’t wait to see you right away.
• So… what do we do later in the evening?
• Last night I had a really wet hot dream – and you were definitely there…

The main part

For the main part, things are already much hotter!  Your partner got on it and you pressed exactly the right buttons? Now your messages can get a little more erotic/sexual!

• Why am I suddenly a little bit hot and wet?
• Sooo… I don’t have any panties on anymore. It was so uncomfortable all day…
• I have some difficulty opening my bra. Can you come by and help me with that?
• I’m just trying lingerie. Would you like to come by and rate them with me?
• What would be the coolest thing I can do for you when we see each other?
• Do you wanna play a game, one says something and the other has to do it? You start.
• Man, the regular yoga has really made me quite flexible!
• I’m in a sexy mood right now, I’m getting so hot…
• I’m really strange right now… When I’m really angry, a completely different side of me comes out…
• I can’t stand how much I want it. You know what I mean…
• My body must be pressed to yours. I don’t even have a choice. My body demands it.
• What was the hottest sex you’ve ever had? I think it’s really horny to hear things like that.
• Just wanted to write to you that I’m lying nude on the bed and thinking about you…. shall I show you?
• I wish I was next to you now … naked.
• Do you know what turns me on? Completely naked chat with you!
• I thought it was as great as you did last night/last xy. That really got me going.
• You’re so sexy, that’s really not fair. I can’t get enough of you. With you I would even try anal sex. 
• My God, I want you so much. I would likely have sex with you outdoors if you were nearby.
• Oh I want you to use me as your personal toy. I want you to finger me really well! I’m just made for your pleasure.
• I am mad when I spoil myself from you. Oh my, I don’t know, I just think it’s so hot…
• I  love it when you grab me by the hair and f*ck me against the couch (or something like that). And just take full control.

The gentle conclusion

There is nothing worse for Sex chat than people who simply turn off their mobile phone/PC immediately after the atmospheric climax and disappear offline. After all, this is about sexting – erotic fun with chat!

This gives the partner the feeling that it has been worthless and used only for the one thing.

Even if at best you have come to an orgasm through your hot texts and are totally done, still take the time and write some short messages for a nice conclusion.

So the dirty chat remains in beautiful memory and is gladly repeated

• When you touch me, I feel I’m on another planet.
• Making/writing/speaking with you feels different from anything I’ve ever experienced. I’m in a completely different world.
• I need you. Everything about you. And I will give you what I am … everything about me. I’ve never felt anything like this before.
• Wow, you were so good! Where did you learn that?
• Please let’s do it again tomorrow!
• Tonight I will sleep well – thanks to you!

No-Go’s – texts that don’t work!

The most important thing is to stay yourself!

If you write to your partner and pretend to be a tough, mega-dirty and willing bride; but he knows exactly how you are in bed – then it seems more confusing than excitable. With strangers you can of course assume any personality, but make sure that you still have your fun!  

If you adjust all the time to please him, then you won’t get your money’s worth in the end and have only provided for his/her fun for free.

Requiring nude pictures several times and intrusively is just as unpleasant and should be avoided. If your chat partner trusts you and you create a good mood for each other, then maybe he will send a picture of himself, or jump on it at the first request. If he doesn’t do it or dodges it all the time, then it’s best not to ask! 

Continue sending hot messages or showing screenshots of them is an absolute No-Go!

It’s a bit like recording you having sex and sending the audio to all your friends – what you write to yourself has happened in confidence and is certainly only for your eyes!

Copy messages and forward them.

There are many sites that offer numerous suggestions and examples for your chats as shown above. However, you should always be careful to still bring in your personal touch – believe me, the other side will notice if they only get lack-lustre copy & paste messages.

Selfish lyrics are also an absolute mood killer. When on a “I carefully swipe you over the belly and touch the inside of your thigh…” after the eighth time only a “I lie still there and wait for what happens next” your chat partner loses interest faster than you can imagine. 

You haven’t booked a solo entertainer, sexting increases your desire together and creates a hot mood on both sides. If you just wanna write about yourself, it quickly seems boring and selfish.

You want to see more? Nudes and hot pictures

Especially with well-known sexting partners, the question of a picture (or video) is likely to come sooner or later.

The erotic insights give us the right kick again, and provide more besides the chats for some variety.

We have put together a little guide on how you as a woman can take elegant and enticing pictures of you!

Visually charming

Visually charming images cannot really be called “naked pictures”. They are especially suitable for getting started with the chat, are sparkling and definitely arouse desire for more!

Photo of you dressed, but without underwear. Especially through airy skirts or tight leggings you can easily see from the outside whether someone is still wearing something at the bottom or not. 

A completely innocent image can work wonders for your viewer!

Photos of you, your hair covering your breasts.  A classic that still serves its purpose timelessly. Especially if you let some skin shine through individual strands of hair teasingly 😉

For short hairstyles you can of course also take a thin towel or a buttoned-up shirt.

A photo of you seductively smiling and biting your lip is always possible! It signals desire and desire, with a strong lipstick it becomes especially sexy again! 

A photo of you in an outfit where you feel attractive can be taken anytime, anywhere. Of course, the best way to choose an outfit is for you to find you attractive. Together with the quite inconspicuous question “How do you find this?” this seems appealing in an elegant way. 

Images with outstretched tongue can be shot either funny or sexy.

It doesn’t seem cheap or overly ambiguous, but it definitely stimulates your counterpart’s imagination 😉

In a low-cut top that highlights your cleavage, you can always take photos! After all, no man would say no to such a prospect…

If you include your breasts (whether clothed or not) with a teasing facial expression, you quickly wake up hot thoughts within him and he will wish his hands were all over you 😉

Visually explicit

Visually explicit images then belong to level two. You’re both horny, maybe everyone is doing it and you’d love to show him where you’re at right now? Then these unambiguous poses and images provide the extra horny kick!

A photo of you with your legs spread gives him deep insights, which he can unfortunately only look longingly from a distance at the moment. Maybe you’re putting two more fingers in particularly hot places to stimulate your imagination?

A picture of you in the tub where you can see your breasts. It looks aesthetic, yet shows enough and is sexy in an elegant way. 

Either you let him guess the rest through the clear water, or you hide it teasingly with enough foam…

If you take pictures unclothed and with your legs slapped on top of each other, it seems challenging and elegant. He knows you not wearing panties, but you can’t see anything.

An image of you in sexy lingerie is always hot, of course! No matter what pose or situation, depending on how horny you are 😉

With photos of you with a sexually explicit facial expression (e.g. with wide open mouth and closed eyes) you should probably get hot already when looking. With this, you turn on the head cinema and convey the feeling of being horny at the moment. 

But beware:

Always remember, only send erotic images to the people you trust!

And even then angry ex-partners with a broken heart can distribute these pictures to all their friends and make you the number one topic of conversation.

You are always on the safe side when you have as few personal elements as possible on the pictures. So avoid your face as best you can on clearly sexual photos, with strangers from the internet anyway!

Conclusion on Sexting – erotic fun with chat

Sexting is a nice way to be very close, even over long distances! You can live out your creative life and unfold completely – a perfect idea to practice Dirty Talk or simply as a sparkling adventure.

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