Sex on holiday – Reading time approx: 15 minutes
Finally the time has arrived – you’ve saved something and indulged in your dream holiday. Maybe a log cabin in the mountains or the classic 30 degrees on the beach?
No matter where it takes you, the intimate time for two will invite you to have hot sex in strange beds. And you are not alone!
In addition to warm sand between the toes and the sound of the waves, many couples also yearn for sex.
After all, you are more likely to be much more relaxed on holiday. You can leave all worries at home and concentrate completely on yourself and your partner.
Why is sex on holiday so popular? Which places are particularly suitable for this? And what do you have to consider? – Well you can find out all about it in this article!
Why is sex on holiday so good?
What is better for hot moments than a journey towards the sun? The travel trend clearly goes to warm regions, and not just because the sand under bare feet feels so good!
For most couples, sex on holiday is simply a part of it. This is logical because exotic food, deep relaxation, sex games, adventure, and all day the half-naked body of your partner in front of your face – it’s obvious you will automatically get pleasure from each other.
63% of Germans have more sex on holiday than in their everyday home, according to a survey by ElitePartner.
Of the participants, more than 50% said they had fallen in love with their partner during the vacation.
More than half of the women surveyed even said they had fallen in love with their partner again during the holiday.
Do you find that surprising? We don’t!
After all, foreign surroundings, adventures, new cultures and hot sun finally allow us to let our longings run free.
In addition, your partner walks around all day in a skin-tight bikini. Or just dressed in swimming trunks right under your nose. How can you not want to please each other?
And this is not only true for couples! You can also have sex, even though you have travelled alone 😉
The dinners together. The time at the pool or down at the beach bar make it easy to meet new people.
And you already have an interest in common – you have all decided for the same holiday destination!
A little hot flirtation, and you never know what might become of it later…
What could be more beautiful than a change from everyday life?
Tips for relaxed sex on holiday
You’ve built hot games firmly into your holiday planning?
Great, then hopefully you have a few exciting days ahead.
But so that everything runs smoothly and you don’t have to stop your hot action (or indeed your holiday) hastily, here are some important tips for you!
#1: Not all countries are as tolerant as others
Sex on the beach can be eerily romantic and exhilarating. But be wary, it’s better to be informed in advance what is allowed in which countries!
If the penalties are too high, you would be better to move your lovemaking to the hotel.
Here are the rules of the most popular destinations:
Turkey: Two months in prison. And fines of up to €200 are the result of sex on the beach in Turkey.
Spain: Caution is also required in Mallorca and the other islands. If you get caught having sex in public, it can cost up to €75,000.
Malaysia: Three years in prison – this is the punishment for freedom of movement in public! Romantic sex on the beach or the pool is aogar. Punishable by a beating and up to 20 years in prison. So don’t take the risk here!
Dubai: According to the law, you are not allowed to kiss, hug or caress in public, under any circumstances. Let alone have sex in public. In any of these circumstances, there is a risk of heavy prison sentences.
But there are also various destinations where you can live out your fun with very little risk.
Canada: In Canada, on the other hand, you can almost relax and not worry about the public squealing on you. Here you will most likely only get a warning.
Bulgaria: This country is known not only for its vast landscapes, but also for its openness. There is also only a warning if you are caught making love.
Scandinavia: Norway and Finland also generally only give small warnings. In Sweden you will be threatened with a €50 fine, so may decide to just take the risk… 😉
Jamaica: If you are caught in the act here, the law will rarely go beyond a simple warning. However, pay attention: Sex with the same sex is prohibited here by law and is punished accordingly!
Believe it or not, in some countries even the carrying of sex toys is forbidden!
Especially in Muslim-majority countries, the law on the “preservation of morality” applies, and that excludes toys.
These include India, Thailand, Saudi Arabia, Vietnam, Egypt and the Maldives.
So here you may prefer to leave the toys at home for your own safety!
#2: If possible, do not travel with plans on holiday
This may sound weird at first glance – without plans to go on holiday? A holiday consists predominantly of plans, surely that’s just the norm these days.
But that means much more in your sex life. If you are already going on holiday with the expectation of having the best sex of your life every day, you may end up going home frustrated.
A good proverb for this is: you can plan sex, but good sex happens all by itself.
Leave all expectations at home and try to focus on relaxation. You will notice when your feelings suddenly get hotter and hotter. Then you have to quickly disappear into your hotel room.
Wanting to have sex on a schedule will just put unnecessary stress on both you and your partner. Whereas in actual fact you just want to rid yourselves of stress.
Incidentally, this has nothing to do with precautions, which we are coming to now!
#3: Be prepared for everything
Preparation is not the same as planning. Or, as the saying goes: “Failing to plan, is planning to fail”!
A small checklist, so that you don’t encounter unpleasant surprises on holiday:
(Of course, this may be tailored to suit your own individual requirements ;))
- Condoms (and plenty of them. There is nothing worse than just having a limited number, which reduces the amount of sex you can have)
- Lubricant
- Sexy lingerie
- Sex toys
- Massage oil/candles (for all those who want to surprise their partner on holiday with a romantic night e.g. with a Nuru massage)
#4: Transport sex toys safely
If you’re planning hot nights, then you’re also thinking about sex toys. However, the question often arises: does sex toys belong in the suitcase, or in the hand luggage? The answer to this question is simple. Sex toys are allowed to fly in hand luggage. Electronic devices (vibrators) can also be transported here.
As you know, electronic is not allowed in checked baggage. Also recommended for travel are small, inconspicuous toys. Excessively large dildos or other items can quickly be classified as a weapon by security personnel.
And you can do without the embarrassing suitcase examination as well!
Also very important: Do not use toys that come very close to a weapon at first glance. These include SM toys such as handcuffs, gags, whips or ropes. Here it can be quite unpleasant to explain to the foreign customs staff what things are really needed for.
#5: What happens on holiday – stays on holiday!
And of course, this doesn’t mean beautiful souvenir photos or funny stories! If you go on holiday as a single person to experience hot adventures, you must keep a great emotional distance for your own safety.
For there is nothing worse than going home with a broken heart. Or a rapture for more great love in other countries.
Get ready for a horny experience at the beach bar and look forward to it, but leave it there.
Even for a few nice hours, but always keep in mind: it’s just a holiday flirtation.
Make this clear to your counterpart in any case! Quite a few have taken home an intrusive stalker with 30 calls a day, in addition to a souvenir and tan strip. If you’re only concerned with sex, make it abundantly clear!
Which places are particularly suitable for sex on holiday?
Of course, you want fun, excitement and above all variety on holiday. In order for you to make this happen whilst you enjoy your romantic time together, you first and foremost need a suitable place for your lovemaking.
We have provided you with the 5 best places to use on your holiday right here. With these you are guaranteed to get your money’s worth!
#1: On the beach
It’s a classic, but still the most beautiful place for a common experience – The beach.
However, in order to ensure that your sex is neither unpleasant nor disturbed, you should observe some basic rules.
First and foremost, of course, it would be beneficial if you are alone on the beach. The early morning hours, or VERY late evening, are particularly suitable for this.
If you are still unsure (or a few joggers could come by), you can also wrap yourself in a blanket. So they don’t immediately realize what you’re doing, and you don’t have to bare anything 😉
Put a towel or other type of underlay under you. During the act, sand can very quickly reach unfavorable places and cause pain or, at worst, inflammation. Planning is the be-all and end-all of sex in public, especially if you’re in a foreign country!
It is best to look around for a suitable place during the day. Hikers or walkers should not be allowed to meet you there by chance. At best you are protected from the wind and it will insulate your noises (to a degree).
For example, a cowl between two sand nozzles or a soft spot between the scrub or trees is very apt here. Then almost nothing stands in the way of your fun!
#2: In the hotel room
After a romantic candlelight dinner, before breakfast or if the passion spontaneously overwhelms you. You can let off steam in your hotel room, where everything is allowed!
At least almost everything!
Even if anonymity is a very special attraction – you should still have a small amount of consideration for your neighbours during sex in the hotel.
Otherwise, the hotel manager may just want to intervene, where you are being too loud during your love games.
The consequences can range from warning to hotel bans, apart from the embarrassing experience for both of you.
In addition, you should include the hotel inventory in your wild games with caution. If you get bored of the bed, then you may end up on the floor or in the bathtub, instead of coming up with crazy ideas.
Remember, hotel equipment is logically foreign property. Heavy soiling or even damage could be expensive and even lead to a hotel ban.
But even if you travel alone and have a hot affair, or a one-night stand, there is still a lot to consider!
In principle, the room is intended exclusively for the person who booked it. Day after day, you don’t want any problems to present themselves if a stranger visits your room.
However, if the person stays until the next morning, you must inform the reception. This is for the safety of all guests, so the hotel knows at an evacuation etc. the exact number of people, the last thing they want is to suddenly be met by 30 strangers!
However just as a word of caution, the hotel may charge you or your partner 50% of the room rate for the night.
#3: In the pool
You get wet by yourself, but where better to enjoy it than in the cool water?
First of all: Sex in the pool is – logically – also forbidden and is referred to as “arousal of public annoyance”.
Of course, this should not deter you from your fun. With a little caution nothing stands in the way of the water games!
The first rule is quite clear: sex in public is absolutely not recommended if other people – particularly children – are nearby.
Then you really should pull yourself together. However, if it’s very late in the evening or very early in the morning, and you are alone in the Pool then you can definitely think of sex here.
Ideally, there are places where the water is in motion – for example, small waterfalls or massage jets.
There, your movements are not so noticeable and you could only see what you are doing with a very close look.
In case you get caught it would also be better that you don’t completely get rid of your swimwear, you may need it quickly.
Swimsuits and slips can be simply pushed aside, so you still get your fun but it’s easier to hide it if you get caught.
#4: In the car
You don’t just want to sit in the hotel all the time during your holiday, you may also want to see something of the country?
Whether on the back seat or in the trunk, here you are at best undisturbed and can let your lust run free.
A somewhat secluded parking lot is best used as a point of view, the chances of being discovered there are much lower than if you get down to it in the middle of the supermarket car park.
If you like it with romance, you are looking for a lonely cliff, and then park your car in such a way that you can also enjoy a wonderful view during the act.
Of course, take care of possible spectators during sex outside the car. When the air is clean, the bonnet invites you under the open sky for some quick fun.
For this, sex positions while standing are particularly suitable, if you raise the hip a bit and lean on your car, they can penetrate without any problems.
You can get creative while acting inside your car. Take your time and move the back seat, then – depending on the size of the car of course – you have almost all positions at your disposal.