First the obligatory disclaimer. This article is *only* discussing completely consensual acts among adults who want to engage in rough sex activities as a way to heighten their sexual arousal. Good, now that we have that out of the way, let’s get on with the discussion!
Rough sex is misunderstood by many as some kind of extreme deviance that only a few people enjoy, but there is a lengthy historical record of rough sex throughout human history and it involves pretty much every adult at least to some degree. Of course many do not go to the depths of figures like the Marquis De Sade who is quoted as saying “Sex Without Pain Is Like Food Without Taste”, but just about everyone has spanked or been spanked by their lover at some point or another.
For many rough sex is a way of supercharging the mundane stimuli of sex with the same person for the eight hundredth time. It’s easy to take your lover for granted when she starts sucking your dick the exact same way she did last time, the time before that, and dozens of times before those. However, a quick tug of her ponytail to one side, a firm hand cupped around her chin and a stern command to “get deeper” is the quickest way to wash away all the knowns and return to a state of absolute focus, like you had that first time you ever fucked her mouth.
Sexy UK dating enthusiasts also experiment quite a bit with kinky XXX antics and fetishes. While it’s vitally important to keep safety the primary goal, especially with deviant desires for things like breath-play or trampling – just about anything that consenting adults wish to do in their own private time should be considered at least once.
Always be sure to have a safe word. One that is a single syllable, easy to understand and impossible to forget. Colors like “Red” or numbers like “Nine” are among the most popular. Also never engage in even the most subtle kind play involving a safe word. The millisecond it gets uttered, all games screech to a halt and nothing else happens until everyone has had a chance to express their feelings prior to any restart.
In a safe, caring and open environment where you are free to test your limits without fear of judgment from anyone else involved, it is amazing what your body will desire, what your mind will ask for and what your partners will do to sate the inner thirst you express for the first time. Many of our readers have stated quite plainly that the best orgasms of their lives were achieved during sex sessions that left markings on their skin, their psyche and their soul forever.