Whether you are a single dating enthusiast who enjoys role play as a different person every time you meet a new hookup, or a married couple spicing up your sexual encounters with a bit of make believe, Role Play can easily enhance any sexual situation by giving you access to a whole cast of characters outside your normal daily routines.
Some role play aficionados prefer thematic play centered on a specific niche. The dirty cop and his sexy criminal catch, a pilot and attendant in their mile high debut, CEO and Secretary are a few that always seem to come to mind. In other instances roleplayers prefer more fantastical settings filled with Dragons and Barbarians, Dungeons and Dominatrix, Anime Cosplay and more. That’s why we are taking a moment to salute every imaginative Sex UK reader who dares to make a difference when it comes to inventing new kinds of sexy opportunities. What makes good roleplay great?
1 – Immersion
The first thing to keep in mind is the importance of immersion. You shouldn’t be acting like a character, you should become the character temporarily. Let your inhibitions go, and avoid pausing the scenes unless it’s a safety concern. When in doubt, play through it, and brush up any rough patches after the scene ends so you can be even better the next time.
2 – Preparation
Uniforms, props, mood music and the like go a long way toward adding new layers of immersion to your scenes. Even a few minutes of setup before you start can make a huge difference in the enjoyment level. If you are playing Detective, find that old trench coat in your closet. A few hours of Ninja games are best with some appropriate theme music in the background. The more you do ahead of time, the better the games become.
3 – Keep It Light
Nothing wrecks the experience like an overly-critical partner pointing out every miscue. If someone slips up, let it go and get back to the show. If your partner isn’t doing a great job as the CEO, play through it and suggest it’s your turn in that role next time so you can show them how it ought to be done!
4 – Safety
Some role play is really simple, but more complicated sex games can become a little dangerous if they involve sex in public places, heavy props or any kind of bondage restraints. Always have a safety plan in place and make sure you know what you are doing before you start. Also be sure to have a safe word that everyone knows in case you need to pause a scene all of a sudden for any reason.
5 – Good Partners
Role play at its core is a group activity. Whether you are playing with just one partner or bringing together a likeminded gathering of sexy playmates, do yourself a favor and take the time to be sure everyone is ready to have a great time. It only takes one wet blanket to spoil the whole party, so keep your guest list tight, and your XXX adventures will be too!
