Mutual masturbation the key ingredient of lovemaking. Many women find it difficult or even impossible to climax from intercourse alone. The two main benefits of mutual masturbation are:
– an ideal way of ensuring she achieves maximum pleasure, as a preliminary to intercourse or as a pleasurable alternative to penetration.
– it can be used during sex to enhance sensation, particularly when the position doesn’t allow for sufficient stimulation of the clitoris.
You have to be seated, lying, kneeling in a good position to prevent rapid exhaustion.
Pleasure for him
Your partner should lie down so you can have full access to his penis. Don’t forget dry hands might hurt your partner. Try some lubricants, massage oil or your own saliva, remembering to renew it regularly. Always ask if you’re holding him too hard cause this may cause pain. Penises can take far rougher stimulation than you might think. But you can also ask him to grab your hand and show you how rough or slow he likes it 😉
A good method of causing your man an orgasm is the testicle stimulation. As you continue with the basic masturbation strokes , use the other hand to stroke his testicles.
Pleasure for her
Let your hand casually explore your woman’s labia and clitoris. Next, move on to stimulating her more fully. You may also want to try out some genital massage techniques .But don’t expect her to be automatically moist. If she isn’t, coat your fingers with saliva or a good lubricant.
Clitoral play- begins by gently twirling a well lubricated finger lightly on the head of the clitoris, then rub your finger on one side of the clitoris and the other several times. Rub backward and forward immediately beneath the clitoris, then rub very slowly up from underneath the clitoris right over the head. Rub across the head from one side to the other, this will drive her crazy.