Make your Sex bucket list – Reading time approx: 12 minutes
Making a sex bucket list is really hip these days, a bucket list is a list of fantasies that you’ve ever wanted to do in your life. But have you ever thought about making a sex bucket list? Sex can be very exciting and innovative. What could be more beautiful than having sex in the most bizarre ways and places? Do you want to make the most of your sex life? Then use a once in a lifetime sex bucket list!
What is a sex bucket list?
Almost everyone is familiar with the phenomenon that is a bucket list. For those who are not entirely familiar with it, we will explain it again briefly. A bucket list is a list where you write things you want to do once in a lifetime. So a sex bucket list is exactly that: what things do you really want to do in terms of sex, before you die? Usually there are no standard items on such a list, but rather some items that are extreme or unusual.
Why a sex bucket list?
Sex is fine and can be very special, but some people just want to get more out of it. Maybe there are sex encounters you really want to do again? For example: sex in public or being tied up naked in the woods while you have sex. There are far to many to mention. Often it’s things you really dream of and that you want to experience in your life. You want to experience this because it’s your wildest fantasies. They’re sex acts you’ve ever want to do before you die. By making a list, your wishes become concrete, and you are more likely to actually do it. This way you can be sure that you will be able to look back on your sex life with satisfaction.
How do you put together a bucket list?
It’s important that you know what you want. This makes it easier to put together a bucket list. You put these together by fantasizing about your wildest ideas about sex. Ask yourself questions such as:
Where would I really like to have sex again?
What is my ultimate sex experience?
How many people would I want to have sex with again?
What type of fetish appeals to me?
What do I really want to try again during sex?
By answering these questions you develop more self-understanding. Moreover, it helps to bring out the wildest ideas for your sex bucket list. Answer all the questions and also write down some questions for yourself. Your imagination will be stimulated and many more ideas will emerge. You don’t have to finish your list in one go. After all, you don’t always think about what kind of things you like to do either alone, or with your partner.
It also helps to watch many videos of others. On the Cam4 website you can find various videos. People can be very creative in these videos. It will stimulate your imagination and there will surely be plenty of ideas coming up for your sex bucket list. Write everything down and then compile a list. Make a top 10 and go through what you’d love to do the most.
Ideas that can be included on your list!
Despite all the tips, are you still finding it difficult to put together a good sex bucket list? Then you’ll find plenty of ideas below that you can put on your sex bucket list. All of these ideas have been carefully curated and will allow you to list items you wouldn’t be able to imagine in your wildest dreams.
Idea 1: On the naturist beach
Officially, this is not allowed and it is not part of naturism at all. However, there are plenty of people who dream of it. Being naked together and then having sex in a place where it’s really not allowed. Naturist beaches are already closely guarded. Many are already closed, which is why it’s even more exciting. Do you think you go to a beach like this with 5 sexy friends and have sex with all 5?
Idea 2: Sex in a parking lot
A place where everyone can see you is so exciting. Sex in public is sex fantasy number 1 for many. Let your imagination come true and have sex with your partner in a public parking lot. This is definitely one to try out with each other whenever you want.
Idea 3: Sex on the train
I know someone who did this and he got a huge kick out of it. Sit in first or second class, at a time when you have room, but it’s not too busy. Have sex with your partner or sex buddy, and occasionally make some noise. It’s exciting when you sit close to a door or someone sits a few rows down from you.
Idea 4: BDSM
Maybe you are already well advanced in the field of BDSM, however for most people this does not apply, and remains a sexual fantasy that they may someday want to try out – only they don’t know how. Fortunately, there is a lot known about BDSM nowadays and you can find many platforms online that are full of explanations and give lots of tips. For many people, the idea of being tied up and powerless is hugely exciting. It is important to do this with a partner you fully trust.
Idea 5: Anal sex
For both men and women this is something they would like to try in bed. When a man penetrates a woman anally, it is an ultimate form of surrender, and so this is about power. Again, trust is important. It’s important that you’re both completely relaxed. This is also the reason why this dream is sometimes difficult to execute. If you have found someone to try this out with, it is advisable to buy some special toys for pleasure. This allows you to build it up slowly and work towards your end goal. By the way, there are also anal toys that you can use for men too!
Idea 6: Role play
Let’s say you’ve been happy with the same partner for years, but still want to try some new experiences. Then role play is a very good option! For example, rent a hotel room and meet in the lobby. You can play someone else completely. A wealthy businessman passing through who scores a prostitute in the lobby, and then pulls her all apart in his room? Or a sexy businesswoman who’s going to take the waiter out and get down to it? So what are you waiting for – when are you going to give it a try?
Idea 7: Sex in front of the camera
Having sex in front of the webcam is a very easy and safe way to do something exciting. You let strange people watch while you make love to your partner. Often your audience will also have some requests for you, and before you know it, you’re using new sex toys with each other during sex, and trying new things with each other. Maybe your afraid of being recognized? On Cam4 you may chose to wear a mask during broadcasting. Then you can have sex completely anonymously in public, without having to leave the house!
Idea 8: Double Penetration
This is one for the women. The feeling of being taken and having nothing to say in bed is very exciting for many women. sex is already a great fantasy for the bedroom for many, but filling both holes at the same time is the ultimate submission.
Idea 9: Partner exchange
Partner exchange is actually cheating, but with your partner. You have sex with another person, and your partner also has sex with another man or woman during your adventure. Partner exchange is something you need to agree on together before you start. Set up a few rules and try it out. Maybe it’s something that does very well for you. But do always use a condom while you are trading partners, or make sure that you have all been tested recently.
Idea: 10: Bi-sex
A sexy date in bed with someone of the same sex. Be honest, have you never fantasized about what that would be like? Maybe take that nice man or woman from work to your own house? Fantasizing about bisexual sex and experimenting with it doesn’t mean you’re gay. You’re just curious and you like to just let go, so why not give it a try?
Idea 11: Cuckold of cuckolding
Put simply – use someone else’s wife during sex. Your wife is taken by another man in your bed and you have to watch. Or vice versa, you fuck someone else’s sexy wife. If this is something that excites you, be sure to try a cuckolding. It’s all about power, as it so often is with sex!
Hopefully you’ve been on your way and you’ve got some good ideas for your Sex Bucket List! And remember: you can always add things to it, of course. You’re never too old to discover new things!