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If you’re looking for ways to spice up your sex life and bring a breath of fresh air to your bedroom, you might want to think about doing it outside of your bedroom.
To be more precise, you should think about trying hotel sex.
Many people think of hotel sex as so much hotter and better than regular sex at home, though there’s technically no big difference other than the place.
Why you should try hotel sex
Just the thought of being in a hotel makes us horny. We want to rip each other’s clothes off and have fast, dirty hotel sex that leaves you wheezing and sweaty.
Looking for alternatives? Why not check out our article on Outdoor Sex
You may think that the porn you watch is the reason why you feel that way, but there’s actually a science behind why sex in a hotel is hotter.
Reason #1: You’re most relaxed when you don’t have tasks to do
Stress is a big mood killer when it comes to sex. When you’re thinking about your tasks, preparing for the next day, and what you need to get done in the house, sex is the last thing you think about.
ut when people stay at the hotel, on vacation or just on weekends, they are relaxed. They don’t think about work, domestic duties, or having to get up in the morning and hurry.
There is something about having no responsibility and the feeling of being taken care of that allows us to relax and have a sense of inner freedom, which is essential for sexual performance.
Reason #2: A new place for sex offers more excitement
Sex at a hotel is something new, something you can’t do every day. It’s also a new place, and that makes people more excited when it comes to sex and trying new things.
New research suggests that when people go out and seek new adventures and explorations outside of their daily routine, it also makes their sex lives more exciting.
Holidays can offer couples the opportunity to expand themselves – to engage in new, exciting activities. This can promote sexual desire, sexual activity, and sexual and relationship satisfaction.
When you’re in a new place, on a getaway, far from home, you’re more excited when it comes to having sex with your partner, trying new sex toys and kinks that you haven’t explored before, and it all happens while you’re staying at the hotel.
Reason #3: You have your privacy
Not everyone lives on their own and hotel sex may be the only way to get some privacy from family, kids and friends.
Women tend to be more reserved during sex at home because they don’t want to wake up the kids with loud noises.
Some couples may live in a multi-generational home with their parents and other relatives, which also doesn’t allow for much privacy. That’s why love hotels are very popular in Japan, where it is common for a couple to live with the extended family.
Sex at a hotel provides the relief of not having to worry about being loud or someone else hearing you, and it allows you to completely relax and enjoy your partner and yourself.
Reason #4: Focus solely on your orgasm
No tidying up, no changing sheets afterwards, no need to clean up the bedside table and make dinner for the family. You can devote yourself entirely to the present and hedonistic activities.
Another great alternative is Sex on the beach
Sex at the hotel relieves you of the responsibility for maintaining your home and is actually a bigger turn on for more people than you might think.
There’s only you, your partner, stunning orgasms, and overpriced room service!
The best tips for good hotel sex
Hotel sex is pretty easy as you can imagine.
But here are a few ideas to help you spice things up a bit more if you want to try Hotel sex but aren’t sure how to approach it.
Tip #1: Pack the basics
Of course, you should pack your most beautiful lingerie, your favorite sex toys, condoms and lots of lubricant. A few handcuffs and even a masturbator if your luggage is big enough.
But aside from all the sexy things you want to use during your vacation, don’t forget the basics like toothpaste, shower gel, and an extra pair of comfortable clothes when you just don’t feel like wearing sexy lace anymore
You never know what you’ll need and if the stuff is in the hotel room. And the last thing you want to do during your sexy getaway is to run to the local shop because you forgot your hand cream.
Plus, you should take a few bottles of water with you, just in case you get thirsty and the hotel doesn’t offer free water. And trust me – you will get thirsty.
Tip #2: Arrive separately
If you really want to take it to the extreme and make it an unforgettable night, then make a little effort and arrange with your partner that you arrive separately at the hotel.
Why not enjoy sex in your hotel as part of a Sex on holiday theme
That will add to the feeling of novelty and it will be so much more exciting. You have the opportunity to surprise your partner by dressing up and wearing the sexy and seductive outfit you kept for a special occasion.
A simple detail like arriving separately, as if you were meeting again for the first time, can make a big difference.
Tip #3: Start the evening outside your bedroom
The foreplay begins before you enter the bedroom – that’s the secret of stunning hotel sex.
Go to the hotel bar and have a drink. Hotel bars are usually designed to be dark and atmospheric, with sexy lounge music in the background and sexy cocktails served.
Sit close together, flirt and really forget that the world exists. Maybe you even pretend to play a game with sexy strangers?
A little tip – don’t overdo it with the drinks and don’t get drunk before you’re even in the room.
A slight high can boost your sex drive for a hot hotel sex session, but too much alcohol can ruin sex very quickly because you’ll just be too drunk to fully enjoy the pleasure.
Tip #4: Test all the possibilities of the hotel room
Once you’re in your hotel room, it’s time to go wild.
Have sex in the shower, the bathtub, on the table, the bed, the armchair, the chair, at the window.
Every corner of your hotel room is a new opportunity for an overwhelming orgasm. Don’t be shy, and enjoy yourself.
You have the privacy to really go all out and unpack your sex toys without worrying that someone might come in at the wrong time. Try light BDSM, spanking, and other kinks you’ve always wanted to try but haven’t had the opportunity to do at home.
Hotel sex is meant to be dirty and wild, so don’t hold back here.
Tip #5: Enjoy wild hotel sex, but don’t be rude
Many people enjoy the thought of sex in the hotel because they want to indulge a little of their exhibitionist side. Screaming loudly so the neighbors can hear it or having sex outside the window is hot.
There’s nothing wrong with letting off steam a bit, but also be considerate of other guests.
If the hotel staff gets complaints about you, they have to do something about it and you don’t want your hotel stay to end badly.
Plus, condoms belong in the trash when you’re done, and don’t jerk off the furniture or blanket. Or at least try not to do it too often – sometimes you just can’t control yourself, and that’s okay.
After all, letting go and going wild is the point of hotel sex. But don’t forget to tip the staff because they definitely deserve it!