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To all those who like flower sex: You need not be ashamed of it! And to those who are not into it at all: Are you really quite sure about that?
A question: Who actually said that flower sex is boring and only for beginners? Whoever that was, does the good, old cuddly sex a great injustice.
Of course, we have not only known since “Fifty Shades of Grey” that sexual experimentation can be worthwhile.
Or since feminists have told the world that women also want to explore, live out and enjoy their sexuality in different ways.
But as in most areas of life, the same applies in bed: The mix makes it and variety is Queen. In addition, floral sex gives us something that usually falls under the same level with the quick number on the breakfast table, or maybe some slow sex.
What exactly is ‘Flower Sex’?
Probably the most important thing about flower sex can be summarized in just three words: lots of feeling! Flower or cuddly sex is tender, slow, passionate and extremely intimate.
Each partner treats the other appreciatively and sensitively. They stroke each other, cuddle with each other and already savor the foreplay itself in a really nice way, for example with intensive necking or petting.
Usually it comes down to the missionary position or the spoon position during the actual sex – these are simply the two sex positions that get along particularly well with cuddling and closeness.
But basically, in flower sex, the rider position and all other positions come in to play – the main thing is that both partners feel comfortable with it.
Flower Sex – for whom is it suitable?
The quick number on the airplane toilet, BDSM, wild, animalistic sex.
After we first have to treat the scratches on our body, or the role play, in which one makes sexy dom and takes us hard – of course this is sexy and it has a quite obvious attraction to practice sexual intercourse harder sometimes.
After all, it’s not for nothing that this is the stuff that many porn is made of. And a quickie fits into every everyday life.
But the slowly tender lovemaking still has its justification, in every respect and equally for both women and men!
The advantages of Flower Sex at a glance
Because flower sex requires positions that are more reminiscent of cuddling, it is often labeled as boring and stuffy.
Sure, the sex trend doesn’t exactly speak for wild passion – but that’s not the point.
Flower sex means consciously taking time for your partner and discovering your body. Does that still sound boring?
Closeness:
Well, complete sexual intercourse without closeness is generally rather difficult, unless you have cyber-sex.
But no other variant of lovemaking is as intimate as cuddly sex.
For someone with relationship status single, flower sex can therefore be quite dangerous, because often feeling and sexuality merge – not that someone then accidentally falls in love with someone else …
Slow movement:
Yes, we are constantly stressed and never have enough time – a reason why many women develop orgasm problems.
But we take the time for flower sex and that alone makes it such a special experience.
To treat yourself to some slowness and tenderness in the hectic everyday life is simply good. By the way: If we take the time anyway, there may also be a little tantra yoga in it before sexual intercourse.
Ideally, this makes sex even more special …
Respect:
Man and woman are equal in flower sex, there is no “dominant” and no “submissive” part.
Of course, in other sex variants, the roles and hierarchies should only be played and not imposed for anyone. Sex partners should always respect each other and have the same amount to report.
But in cuddle sex, love and appreciation are clearly expressed and sometimes we just need that – men as well as women.
Admittedly, every day of tender flower or vanilla sex will probably be boring for most couples in the long run (and who has that much time?). But ultimately, this probably applies to any kind of sex.
Luckily, we don’t have to commit ourselves to bed for the rest of our lives – except (maybe) on a partner.
In flower sex, tenderness and romance are in the foreground. Sounds boring? We will tell you why the sex trend is underestimated and which positions are worthwhile.
Flower Sex – the best positions
Lotus position
The lotus position fits into the category of flower sex not only because of its name:
The man sits cross-legged while the woman makes herself comfortable on his lap and wraps her legs around his upper body.
The sex position provides firstly for physical closeness and secondly for a lot of intimacy, as both can look into each other’s eyes.
Another plus point: The breasts of the woman are approximately at eye level of the man and can be pampered extensively.
Elephant position
Have you ever heard of the elephant position? The woman lies on her stomach and the man penetrates her from behind by lying on top of her and supporting her slightly with his arms.
This is also a great position for gay lovers too!
To raise her pelvis a little, she can use a pillow as an aid.
This sex position does not allow eye contact, but all the more physical closeness and brings particularly intense feelings through the angle of penetration.
Love knot
The love knot is rather one of the less well-known flower sex positions.
Here, too, both partners lie on their side – unlike the spoon position, however, they are facing each other.
Now they can wrap themselves tightly around each other while the woman puts her upper leg on the man’s thigh and he penetrates into her.
The position ensures closeness and tenderness and allows eye contact. There is hardly a more intimate variant of flower sex!