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You only know the saying dry sex from movies and comedies? It sounds like a boring petting variant for beginners?
But then you have missed something so far! Dry sex can be so much more than just “sliding around” in clothes; in fact, it may even end up being a favorite of yours?
Contents
- Dry sex… What is it?
- Hot tips for your dry sex
- Imagine the nipples
- Panties – Massage for you
- Panties – Massage for Him
- A ban on movement
- Is orgasm possible with dry sex?
- The 4 best positions for dry sex
- Spoon position
- Classic missionary position
- Doggy
- But beware
- Pregnant from dry sex?
- Sexual diseases due to dry sex?
What exactly is dry sex, how can you achieve an orgasm easily, what are the practical positions, and other important things – you will find all the answers in the following article!
Dry sex has two meanings. In the first type, 2 people rub each other sexually. They wear clothes at all times. Type two is classic sexual intercourse, but doing it ‘dry’ to get a greater feeling.
The latter is a very popular practice in African countries, where the woman dries her vagina with towels, soil, sand or plant leaves, beforehand.
Since the penis then slides more difficultly, it is supposed to increase the pleasure.
For me, it just sounds very painful!
The “real” dry sex, on the other hand, is fortunately quite harmless – and is fun for both sides!
In principle, it is almost like classic sexual intercourse: two people lie on top of each other (or are in other sex positions) and move accordingly.
In contrast to normal sex, however, a small detail is missing – or actually there is even one too much, namely fabric.
Those involved are fully clothed or at least still wearing their underwear. The advantage: you can also have dry sex in places that would otherwise be too risky, such as in the office.
Since the penis remains outside and the vagina is not penetrated, no sperm enters the birth canal.
Of course, this also means first and foremost: no pregnancy. As long as its joy juice doesn’t come near your vagina, everything is fine.
So if you’re in the hotel or with friends and you don’t have a condom with you, but still want to have sex, then this form of sexual intercourse is especially good for you!
With the right mood, the right technique and of course the right partner, the boring-sounding “dry exercises” can quickly become an exciting experience – with a particularly intense climax.
Now I have already mentioned above that dry sex can be summed up with “Man imitates sex movements with clothes”, but there is much more behind the scenes with this one.
Now that the principle is clear, I’ve provided you with a collection of sparkling tips. This means that the orgasm is only one touch away, in the truest sense of the word!
Of course, you may (and indeed should) caress and touch your partner wherever you like, while having dry sex.
Nipples are perfect as a “point of attack”, after all, they are very sensitive.
If the feeling there is too strong, you can reduce it with a small piece of fabric. For example, a thick sweater is less suitable than a thin shirt!
When you notice that your partner’s nipples are slowly getting hard, and becoming more and more visible through the T-shirt, that’s an excitable feeling for both of you!
Of course, as you can only rub your torso against each other, the additional fabric will make the touches particularly attractive.
Even with panties on, the sensation at the vulva is great.
Search the clitoris and build up some pressure.
That makes them melt away. An alternative is to use your entire hand, and finger it properly through your pants.
The fabric that lies between the fingers and the sensitive points brings with it a tempting feeling.
As soon as you get wet through the massage and it is even felt/seen through the panties, your partner definitely knows that he is doing something right.
For a man to orgasm with dry sex, a lot has to be done. Here are a few tips to help you:
- Circle with three fingers and thumb along the glans (the head)
- Go along the shaft powerfully from top to bottom
- Knead his testicles gently but firmly
Also a hot variant, which definitely makes dry sex more exciting, is the so-called prohibition of movement. Your partner is in front of you and must not move while you kneel in from of him and rub your body in different parts over his body.
Start harmlessly, for example on his thigh or on his abdomen, and then gradually you can get to his pleasure points. But of course he is still not allowed to help!
This practice works particularly well with a blindfold or even shackles (or both).
Due to the clothes, the “victim” will find it difficult to predict the next touch and he will eagerly await your next move.
Is orgasm possible with dry sex?
Dry sex is mainly used as a kind of foreplay. It serves to make the partner hot and horny. If the woman is already a bit damp, the sex is even better.
Also for a change, use dry sex as a game.
You can use it as a sex game with the aim of achieving an orgasm.
Sure, that’s a challenge! But it can also be a lot of fun.
The 4 best positions for dry sex
Of course, as with normal sex you can also abate dry sex in any position. However, there are some that are particularly suitable for the “frictions” and can help you to a particularly lusty stimulation.
You enjoy getting off on intimacy and cuddly sex? Then the spoon position is just the right thing for you during dry sex!
here are some tips for a better experience:
- He can massage her breasts or her vulva at the same time
- He can put a leg over you so that his penis is “free”
- She can caress his butt if she is flexible enough
Make the movements more intense and build up as much body contact as you can!
This position should be known to everyone, because it is not only suitable for romantic sex! The advantage of the missionary position is that you can kiss, or even fight violently. This also works with dry sex.
In addition, it is horny for you if your partner easily massages your vulva with a knee or his leg. For this purpose, you can also rub yourself against it in a targeted manner.
Of course, the whole thing goes the other way! When you lie on your stomach and your partner snuggles up to your back from behind, you feel his whole body and the touches become even more intense despite clothes!
The doggy classic must not be missed as part of your sex repertoire for dry sex.
Most people know how it works: You stand in the quadruped stand and support yourself with your hands. Stretch your sweetness towards your butt as he kneels behind your hips.
The doggy position is not only perfect for “true penetration”, but is also great for building friction!
Your partner can now rub his penis in a controlled way on your buttocks and vagina, with the free hand he can also massage you.
The best way to wear underwear for this position is to feel the details better and you know exactly what status your partner is in.
Dry sex is especially popular with young couples who still feel too insecure for “actual” sex or want to stay petting first. But older, experienced couples also find favour with this innocent sex variant. But what you must not forget is that even without the penis having direct contact with the vagina, there is the possibility of a sexual disease or even pregnancy!
Unfortunately, the answer to this question can be answered with a simple YES.
Becoming pregnant through dry sex is possible when a fresh seed enters the vagina.
An important condition for this is that the woman is in her fertile days and that the man has been eased.
In contrast to sexual intercourse however, the ejaculatory effusion takes place during the caresses of petting outside the vagina. So the sperm have to somehow manage to get into the vagina.
This is actually a difficult matter for the sperm, as the way to the fertile egg in the uterus is quite long and during dry sex there is additional clothing in between.
Nevertheless, there are many ways in which fresh sperm can enter the vagina.
For example, if the woman sits with her vagina in the ejaculatory effusion, the ejaculatory effusion happens on the labia of the vagina or when a finger is inserted into the vagina with seminal fluids.
Such variants can often occur in the zeal of battle when you’re wild and not paying enough attention.
So for safety: Keep the ejaculatory finger away, or even better wear a condom.
Sexual diseases due to dry sex?
Unfortunately, the answer again is YES. The chance of getting a sexually transmitted disease through dry sex or petting is low, but it is still present.
During your lovemaking, sperm pleasure drops or vaginal fluid may leak. If these fluids come into contact with a wound or other entry points of the body, a sexual infection may occur.
Diseases such as gonorrhea, hepatitis, herpes or syphilis can also be transmitted through unprotected oral intercourse.
This may all sound like spoilers of the game now, but the chance of a small wound on affected parts of the body plus a contagious partner is fortunately low during dry sex.
In order not to take an unnecessary risk, we recommend a condom and, of course certainty about your health and that of your partner.