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Sex is probably the most beautiful thing in the world. Especially when it is crowned with a climax. But what should you do if premature ejaculation regularly gets in the way of your togetherness? Many women, but especially men, have to delay orgasm.
Unfortunately, things are a little different for men. Once they have come it means that nothing works for the next few minutes, if at all. It’s a little different for women.
Just take a deep breath and it can go on, no matter how intense the orgasm was. On this point, the male sex is clearly at a disadvantage. But even for this problem, there are solutions that can adapt individually.
And with one or the other tricks, you can prevent bigger problems. In this article, you will learn all the necessary tips and tricks to delay and even control your climax.
How to put your fear in bed and have fun as a couple, with your partner.
What is a premature orgasm
I can reassure you fundamentally, because not every man who comes after a short time, is unfortunately having a premature ejaculation. This is also not a small problem, but a dysfunction of the body.
This dysfunction involves the male body reaching orgasm within a few seconds. That’s right! After a few seconds.
There are even cases when the man already came to orgasm before he could penetrate into them. If this is the case, we are talking about a real problem, which can only be looked after professionally.
So if you want to delay your orgasm, you should first determine what you ultimately suffer from. Is it really the dysfunction of your body, or are you so excited after a few minutes that you can no longer withstand the pressure and delaying is unfortunately no longer an option?
Unrealistic ideals lead to quick orgasm
Premature ejaculation is a physical problem, but only if it is actually a dysfunction of your body.
If you just feel like you’re coming sooner than porn is, I can calm you down and help you delay your sexual arousal. Everything you see online is usually fake, played and posed.
This has nothing to do with the sexuality of a man or a woman. In short, never compare yourself to others when it comes to your stimulation, because uncertainty is the last thing you need.
Coming too early can be a problem, but not a problem that cannot be treated fundamentally. Even though the trip can be long, it is guaranteed to be worth it.
The reasons for premature ejaculation
The reasons for an early orgasm are manifold and individual. So it is not possible to find a blanket solution that suits everyone.
Some men have been struggling with their early orgasm all their lives, others are struggling with stress and pressure to perform. There are actually many different reasons why man suddenly suffers from such problems. Fear often plays along.
The fear of the early coming. The fear of disappointing his partner. Fear that she might cheat on you, get what she doesn’t get from you somewhere else.
No need to worry
But I can reassure you. A partner who loves you will love you no matter what problem comes your way. Especially if the problem can be combated with a solution.
There are numerous techniques to get your problem under control. To fight early arousal and premature orgasm!
When to talk about premature ejaculation
There are numerous studies that prove these facts. One of them was set up by the WHO organization. In this study, one speaks of an “early ejaculation” when the man reaches his climax within 10-15 seconds, or even faster.
Also, when the man comes, although the penis has not yet been able to penetrate into the vagina. Statistically, however, this dysfunction affects only 5 percent of men worldwide. On average, the men last between 5-15 minutes until their climax.
Of course, one or the other man who can bird around for hours also mixes with the masses, but this is not the norm and should not be taken by any man as an example.
There are some sex researchers who assume that 1 minute or 30 seconds could also be problematic for one’s own sex life.
However, the feeling of the person concerned and his partner plays a greater role. So there is no right or wrong and each technique can be used individually during sex.
Delaying orgasm: these techniques help
There are numerous techniques to help him push back his orgasm. When it comes to sex, after all, it depends on both. How you can help your partner particularly well and which technique actually works, you will learn now!
The point of no return
The name says it all. “The point of no return” means “the point at which there is no turning back”. Sounds logical, right? This start-stop technique is one of the most common methods when it comes to declaring war on an early climax.
Because it works best in most cases. His best piece is stimulated until he has his ejaculation just under control, that’s when you stop. This stimulation phase should really not last longer than a few seconds at the beginning, up to a few minutes.
As long as he tells you that he can barely hold back his orgasm. At that moment, most men feel the greatest desire, but are able to control the whole event.
Stop and go
Once this point is reached, his penis is an exclusion zone for you. And that until all the pressure has subsided. Don’t get your partner too excited at this minute. Not even by touching and kissing.
It is best for everyone to concentrate on themselves during this short break until it then moves on to round two. After about a minute, or depending on how long your partner needs, it continues. Whether by hand, mouth, vaginal, anal… There are no limits to this.
After he is about to orgasm in round two, you stop again. The whole thing is now repeated up to 4 times. After about 15 minutes, he is now allowed to come. You repeat this for weeks at regular intervals. Success is guaranteed.
The self is the man
If you have problems opening up to your partner so that you want to delay your orgasm together with her, you can also easily lend a hand.
After all, you should also feel pleasure and with the right practice this is guaranteed. Together is often more beautiful, but it’s up to you how you want to handle your situation.
The more often you practice, the better your penis can handle an erection even in an emergency.
So in short – the more often and above all more controlled you get one down, the longer your best piece can be even in an emergency. Later, you can still get involved together and celebrate your climax together.
The squeeze technique
This technique delays orgasm, even if many don’t even know it exists. It is best to arrange a sign so that you know that your partner is about to come.
Because only shortly before orgasm, the squeeze technique works perfectly and really contributes something to the prevention of an early orgasm.
It works like this – you gently press the lower part of the penis with your index finger and thumb until you reach the top of the glans penis, because there is the most sensitive area in men.
Do this for about 10-15 seconds. This reduces the urge for a climax and after a short time it can go on with the sex. If necessary, you are welcome to repeat the squeeze technique until you have achieved the desired result.
And don’t forget, once you have mastered delaying orgasms, you can then move on to more advanced techniques where you can practice multiple orgasms.