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This article is all about the act of flogging in the BDSM context. When most people think of BDSM, the first thing that comes to mind is a dominatrix or dominus (male version) in lacquer and leather, who punishes the sub (the submissive partner) with a whip.
But how is the BDSM whip actually used, and what do you have to pay attention to as a beginner? We’ll tell you everything about SM flogging in this article.
Why is the whip so important in BDSM?
In BDSM, flogging actually plays an important role in a variety of people. The reason lies on the one hand in the symbolic character and flagellantism, i.e. the sexual fantasy and preference – to receive pain.
This pleasure pain (algolagnia) refers to the need for pain in the sexual context. In science, algolagnia is based on deviant behavior and a disorder of sexual preference.
But what is normal? A person who has this desire for pain can also live it out freely!
Pain can be added to BDSM in a variety of ways. In addition to spanking, CBT (cock-ball-torture) and many others, the whip is simply the ideal tool.
What type of whips are there in the BDSM area?
Did you know that there are many different types of whips you can use for BDSM? Below we introduce you to the most important SM whips.
Alternative to flogging in BDSM
There are some terms you should have heard if you want to get started with SM (Sado Maso). The whips are arranged according to the degree of hardness (soft to hardcore):
Fox tail whip
The fox tail whip is not really suitable for pain. With this “whip” you can rather provoke a tickle. One can also speak here of a sensual torture measure.
Whips
Whips have a large number of plush, which are very soft and also rather tickle. In addition, there are some leather tails, which cause slight pain when used correctly. A good tip for beginners.
Flogger
A flogger is a very typical BDSM whip. The flogger has a firm grip, usually made of wood or plastic, which gives the master a firm grip and good control.
Furthermore, the flogger has a large number of straps, which are made of leather. Depending on the variant, suede or artificial leather is used. Faux leather is usually a bit more stable and causes a little more pain than suede floggers.
Cat o’ nine tails
The nine-tailed cat is a kind of flogger with exactly nine tails. These are usually made of leather, but are braided, which achieves more stiffness . This in turn means more pain for the recipient.
Rope-whip
A rope-whip is no longer for complete beginners. Well suited for self-flagellation, it can be used in a well-controlled manner.
Crop whip
Crop whips are mostly used in equestrian sports to steer and chastise the horse. But crops can also be used for sado maso. Crops are a kind of flexible stick with a leather stroke at the top.
The hit of a crop can hurt a lot, so it is only recommended for advanced users.
Rubber whip
Rubber whips are especially painful. They are available in different versions, with one, two or many tails. Hard blows can quickly lead to injuries, so they should be used skillfully.
Bullwhip
A bullwhip is the whip that most people know. They are typically used by cowboys and require a lot of practice. This whip is only suitable for absolute professionals.
The bullwhip can lead to extreme pain and is therefore very dangerous. The disadvantage of the Bullwhip is that it takes up an extremely large amount of space for BDSM flogging.
Alternatives to flogging
In addition to the classic flogging, there are other ways to cause pain:
The lighter version: spanking
Don’t you have a whip to hand, or are whips are just too hard for you? Or do you want more variety for your BDSM session?
No problem, spanking can in principle be used without additional tools. Spanking means hitting, punching or beating. This is usually applied to exposed parts of the body such as the buttocks or back, thighs or penis/vagina.
With the flat hand, the strength can be controlled very easily. If this is not enough for you, you can use various tools for chastisement, such as a carpet flogger, a paddle or household items, such as a hairbrush.
With the cane
Another alternative to flogging is using the cane. It revolves around beating, punishing or chastising with a wooden stick. The cane has a long tradition in BDSM and was often used in school to chastise the students.
Of course, this is forbidden nowadays. However, in private households where it is used as a BDSM tool, the cane is becoming increasingly popular.
Further punishments
There are countless other penalties that can be applied. These include tickle torture or the orgasm ban. You can find many more suggestions in our introduction to BDSM.
How hard does BDSM flogging have to be?
If you want to try whipping, you don’t have to worry. There is a suitable option for every experience level. The only thing that matters is a trustworthy partner who clearly accepts your limits.
As you have seen above, there are a variety of whips that cause only slight pain. With a little more practice, the more severe whips can also be used.