While we hear about anal sex all the time, it’s usually addressed in a very general way. That’s great for beginners who need to know the ins and out of working up to anal penetration. The question is, what happens after that?
Here are some tips to guide you into the mysteries of anal sex
Relax
If there’s one thing you can do to make anal sex more pleasurable, it’s to relax. whether you’re giving or receiving anal sex, you have to take your time, slowly relax into it, and allow your partner to do the same.
Breathe
A lot of people also tend to hold their breath during anal sex, whether as a result of anticipation or a little natural fear. Big mistake. Big. Breathing is one of the most important aspects of allowing your body to relax and enjoy. Focus your attention here.
Communicate
Tell your partner what you need, what you don’t want, what you enjoy, and what you don’t enjoy before the act and even during. Don’t be afraid to speak up.
Slow Down
Sex doesn’t have to a be a race to the finish. In fact, when you’re venturing into anal sex, it shouldn’t be. Start slowly and gently to help get the area accustomed to the feeling of penetration
Anal Accessories
If there’s one thing that’s important at all times during anal sex, it’s lube. The anus does not self-lubricate like the vagina does so making sure it stays as lubricated as possible will make anal sex easier, more comfortable and infinitely more pleasurable.
Sex toys such as anal probes, butt plugs and anal bead are also designed for anal pleasure