In the beginning sex is more physical, you enjoy the touch, every position is orgasmic and each kiss feels new and exciting. Well after some time most people will end up doing the same routine over and over again in the bedroom causing sex to decrease in passion and feel more mundane. Below are a few things I have done throughout my life to keep my love life a bit more exciting and new.
1. Open your mind
The first step to having a more adventurous sex life is to open your mind to things you may have been opposed to in the past. Things like role playing, sex becomes more about your mind then physical pleasure as you get older and role playing with your partner gives you an opportunity to experience that and at the same time you get to explore those fantasies you’ve kept bottled up in your naughty little mind 😉
2. A little pain can go a long way
Not that pain is always a part of BDSM, but sometimes a little nibble here and there and a light spanking can be very pleasurable. BDSM has been around since, well forever. The first thing people see in their minds when thinking about BDSM is a girl dressed in black leather, spikes all over, sticking her stiletto heels into some poor souls foot saying things like “you know you like this you squirmy little pig!!!!”…….. Ok maybe that’s just me but it’s not always about pain or humiliation.
Tying up your partner gently restraining him/her while blindfold and playfully touching them with very soft objects such as a feather and gently kissing every part of their body but focusing on the pleasure points while whispering naughty limericks in their ear can drive your partner mad with ecstasy and in turn you get to enjoy the pleasure you are inflicting. There is so much more you can get from exploring BDSM, do your own research on the subject using the web and see for yourself.
To be continued…