We use to call Christmas time a magic one. Do you remember the beginning of the relationship, when you used the same word “magic” for sex? When each sex game was memorable and you didn’t know what to do more to please your partner? Well, if you remember, you should bring back the magic , especially now when Christmas is near.
We get carried away by the everyday problems and we forget about our intimacy. We expect a three day celebration, try to reserve those for bedroom time.
There is a special occasion , so try to do something exciting for your partner. He will appreciate all the gifts you bought for him, but the moments shared together are priceless.
Plan an escape from your cozy bedroom to the mountains, or find a last-minute offer to a sunny beach, or even “help” a friend in need, and take care of his house while he’s away, and sneak into his apartment. Getting out of your territory is known to help increase your sexual appetite.
You shouldn’t just buy from a sex shop. You should think, a few days before, what to do to please your partner. Maybe one time in the past, he confessed you about some fantasy , and now is the right time to make it happen.
If you don’t remember anything, think of some proposals. The important thing is to be something new and highly valued by your partner. You can try discreetly to find out some clues from him.
Now all that plan you’ve made, shouldn’t be available only by the time of Christmas. It’s a good opportunity to tell each other your fantasies, promise more involvement, and why not turn this “gift” into a monthly thing.