Grab my neck…pull my hair
Erotic asphyxiation is sometimes referred to as breath play where the restriction of breathing is done purposely for sexual arousal. This could be anything from choking, smothering and or act and situations where one is not able to breathe as freely as usual.
Such a turn on…
Being able to have complete control over when your partner gets to breathe is part of domination play.
When you or your partner knows they have the power over your life and death it’s a huge sign of power. Your life is literally in their hands. The person who is not in control may find this situation arousing because of the fact that for erotic asphyxiation to work they have to be completely committed and give over complete control. This sex act is great for those who love complete domination and for those who love the idea of being completely submissive.
You can use house hold objects such as scarves and sheets. I prefer the intimacy and power I feel from being asphyxiated by bare hands.
Always have a signal that indicates you’ve had enough. Since your breathing will be restricted this is EXTREMELY important
Careful bbs!
Erotic asphyxiation is a delicate dance. You have to learn your partners body and how to restrict them enough to turn them on but to know the limit before it gets dangerous.